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How Small Moments of Praise Make a Big Difference

Simple displays of gratitude help to build culture and relationships

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Prior to the pandemic, Nicole Yates was speaking with her lab colleagues about ways to build a positive culture among their team of around 50 people. Recalling how a manager in a different lab, Kelly Seaton, wove displays of gratitude into their team鈥檚 work routine, Yates' colleague Stephanie Langel suggested that, in weekly meetings,  team members should have a moment set aside specifically for delivering small doses of praise to their colleagues.

Moving the idea forward, Yates and Seaton created a short online survey that allowed the lab鈥檚 staff to thank a team member for a kind gesture, good work or timely help. Each week, the survey submissions were read out loud in lab meetings.

Nicole Yates helped develop a way for her colleagues to shout-out good work from their teammates. Photo courtesy of Nicole Yates.鈥淚t鈥檚 very simple, just three or four questions, your name, who you鈥檙e expressing gratitude for, and what they did,鈥 said Yates, a research laboratory manager who works in the lab of CHSI鈥檚 Dr. Georgia Tomaras. 鈥淭hat could be lending a hand cleaning up after a long day or helping someone figure things out if they made a mistake.鈥

During pre-pandemic in-person weekly lab meetings and recent virtual ones, the period when the shout-outs were read, or delivered in the moment by participants, has become a favorite part of the lab鈥檚 weekly routine.

鈥淲e wanted to make sure that, even if we were feeling a little disconnected, and things were kind of tough, there are still things people are doing to help each other,鈥 Yates said.

Whether a public display of gratitude during a meeting, or in small personal conversations, finding opportunities to praise colleagues for work they鈥檝e done, or help they鈥檝e given, is a proven way to build a positive mindset, strengthen connections with collaborators, and create a supportive workplace culture.

The team at the Duke Center for Human Systems Immunology often devote time during meetings for praising good work by colleagues. Photo courtesy of Nicole Yates. According to a  from Achievers Workforce Institute, the research arm of the Achievers human resources consulting firm, 52 percent of workers stayed in their job because they feel valued and supported.

鈥淚 think it makes a difference in a lot of departments,鈥 said Laura Weisberg, associate professor in the  at Duke. 鈥淭he person on the receiving end feels seen, recognized and acknowledged. And I think for all of us, it can nurture motivation and the drive to do better.鈥

Even in small doses, praise can help make your workplace a more productive and positive place.

Build a Positive Mindset

Dr. Laura Weisberg of Duke Psychiatry and Behavioral Sciences Part of the Duke faculty since 2000, Weisberg is a child and family clinical psychologist who specializes in treating patients with eating disorders. She said it鈥檚 common for people to dwell on negative criticisms, internalizing them and potentially developing a habit of harsh self-criticism.

鈥淭he way that shows up in the workplace is that people may feel that if they aren鈥檛 hard on themselves, then maybe they won鈥檛 do as good a job,鈥 Weisberg said. 鈥淏ut there鈥檚 no evidence that being so self-attacking is of any benefit.鈥

That鈥檚 why taking advantage of opportunities to express gratitude for colleagues鈥 good work, or helpful gestures is important.  showed that 90 percent of employees said they work harder when they receive recognition, and 92 percent said that, when they鈥檙e recognized for a specific action, they鈥檙e more likely to do it again. 

鈥淚t gives us a nice hit of something positive that contributes to us continuing to make an effort, as opposed to when we feel like we鈥檙e doing our best but it鈥檚 in a vacuum and nobody sees us and nobody recognizes us,鈥 Weisberg said.

Weisberg recommends delivering positive feedback a soon as possible after a colleagues does something worthy of it. And when showing gratitude, it鈥檚 helpful to be specific about what you鈥檙e praising.

She also said that by training yourself to look for more opportunities to praise others, it helps you bring a more positive outlook into your workday.

鈥淯nfortunately, a lot of times, in the workplace, everyone is under immense stress and pressure,鈥 Weisberg said. 鈥淲hen we鈥檙e in that kind of mindset, we aren鈥檛 noticing the positives so much about ourselves or other people. Being able to reorient toward noticing what people are doing to make you smile, or that helps you feel supported, is helpful.鈥

Strengthen Bonds With Collaborators

Duke Cancer Institute's Bose Kamineni makes it a point to acknowledge the help he gets from colleagues. Photo courtesy of Bose Kamineni. In his role as the manager of database and application development with the , Bose Kamineni and his team are often sent requests from researchers and department leaders to sift through large amounts of data to find answers that can power medical breakthroughs and improvements to patient care.

To do this, Kamineni鈥檚 team often has to work with groups to refine their requests, and collaborate with IT pros, research administrators and others to develop digital tools and access the data to find the best answers.

鈥淎ll of these relationships mean a lot to us,鈥 Kamineni said of his collaborators.

To show appreciation for contributions and to deepen connections, Kamineni often sends shout-outs to the  blog operated by Duke Human Resources. He鈥檚 thanked Duke Cancer Institute colleagues , and staff members of the Office of Information Technology for providing  when he runs into hurdles. 

鈥淲hen members of a team know they鈥檙e appreciated, it makes a lot of difference,鈥 Kamineni said. 鈥淭hat鈥檚 something that can keep morale high.鈥

Set a Healthy Culture

The bits of praise shared during the weekly meetings of the CHSI lab have not only brought a positive vibe to the team and helped maintain a feeling of connecting during the pandemic, but Nicole Yates points out that it鈥檚 also helped create a supportive culture that she hopes will endure.

鈥淎s our team has expanded, and we鈥檝e brought in new people, it really gives people an idea of what our culture is,鈥 Yates said. 鈥淲e have a supportive culture and whenever new people see what others get shouted out for, it really gives them an idea of what we value.鈥

According to the  report, 40 percent of respondents listed colleagues and culture as a top priority when looking for a job.

鈥淚t definitely helps you focus on the positives,鈥 Yates said of the emphasis on praise. 鈥淲e all have things that go bad in our day. People make mistakes. But this helps you focus on the good things people are doing.鈥

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