At Duke, Sheryl Sandberg Discusses Her Influential Career
The outgoing Meta COO on business choices and life as a tech leader

If there was ever any doubt, Sheryl Sandberg can command a conference room.
鈥淣othing can make me feel better than walking into a room of women in tech,鈥 said Sandberg, chief operating officer at Meta, as she shook hands with staff and greeted students in the at Wilkinson Hall on Friday, June 10.
During the question-and-answer session hosted by DTech, Sandberg gave a perspective you might expect from the double-Harvard graduate overseeing Meta鈥檚 business operations, book author and billionaire frequently in the news: 鈥淕o code.鈥 鈥淚 want space for women to be unapologetically ambitious.鈥 鈥淭echnology is clearly the future.鈥
And some advice you might not expect. One student asked the tech leader to describe a time when she felt least powerful.
Sandberg pointed to Russian interference in the 2016 American presidential election. The proper checks weren鈥檛 in place for misinformation on Facebook, Sandberg said, but that incident forced the company to learn how to build up defenses.
鈥淭here are moments where you feel powerless, and I think you just have to do the right thing,鈥 Sandberg said. 鈥淎nd to walk into work every day and say, 鈥業t doesn't matter if no one notices.鈥欌
Changing Old Expectations
Another student asked about the notion that women are in direct competition with one another in the workplace. Sandberg said she noticed it clearly while she was writing about her early days at Google, where she eventually became vice president of global online sales and operations.
鈥淚 thought that a bunch of the senior women were mean, just mean. They weren鈥檛 helpful,鈥 Sandberg said. 鈥淏ut then I realized, they actually weren鈥檛 mean. They were the same as the men. We just expected more of them.鈥
Women not only face 鈥渙ld expectations,鈥 Sandberg said, but also higher expectations, and that鈥檚 important to recognize and correct.
After the event, Angel Mcharo, a rising senior majoring in computer science and earning a certificate in innovation and entrepreneurship, said she was most surprised about how Sandberg would answer questions with a mix of personal and professional experiences.
鈥淪he will not shy away from answering through personal stories. Often when I'm at work, I leave my personal stories and I have never discussed any of my losses,鈥 Mcharo said. 鈥淚 didn鈥檛 know you could do that with strangers.鈥
Mentorship for Women in Tech
The DTech program, an effort to inspire diverse undergraduates to choose careers in engineering and computer science, is connected to Meta by more than just a single event. A total of 44 current and former DTech Scholars are currently working at Meta.
鈥淥ur program empowers the next generation of diverse leaders in tech by helping students and recent graduates gain inspiration, hands-on experience and a powerful community,鈥 said Amy Arnold, executive director of DTech. 鈥淭oday's event is a great example, as Sheryl Sandberg has inspired many women to see themselves at a boardroom table.鈥
Rising sophomore Esha Kapoor joined DTech after friends suggested the program to her.
鈥淚 really love the mentorship and all the support and the wonderful women in the program,鈥 said Kapoor, who is studying computer science with a minor in finance.
While on campus, Sandberg also met with select faculty, administrators and two students attending Duke as Dave Goldberg Scholars, a program named after Sandberg鈥檚 late husband.
Now that Sandberg has announced she鈥檚 leaving Meta after 14 years at the company, what鈥檚 next? There are some hints. The initiative is growing rapidly as a mentorship space for women, for one.
鈥淪o, for me right now, I鈥檓 at a different chapter of my life, and I鈥檓 just wanting more time,鈥 Sandberg said. 鈥淎nd more time is not possible at this job. It鈥檚 not going to get to a place where I can do more with my foundation.鈥
鈥淚 think you leave when you鈥檙e ready to do the next thing,鈥 she said. 鈥淎nd when the next thing can鈥檛 be done at the place you are.鈥