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One Year In: Optimism, Advice for Dealing With Stress and Anxiety From the Pandemic

Mental health experts share tips for families, individuals

Part of the The Briefing: The Impact of COVID-19 Series
One Year In: Optimism, Advice for Dealing With Stress and Anxiety From the Pandemic
Professors Robin Gurwitch, Anna Gassman-Pines and Jennifer Plumb-Vilardaga

DURHAM, N.C. -- The mental health challenges associated with the COVID-19 pandemic have overwhelmed many Americans. The stress and anxiety from sickness, lost employment and a pivot for children and parents to isolated, virtual schooling has had a devastating cumulative effect.

As the first anniversary of the pandemic approaches, three Duke experts reflected Wednesday on the impact it has had on various aspects of mental health during University Communications鈥 50th virtual briefing for journalists since last March.

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Here are excerpts:

ROBIN GURWITCH, professor of psychiatry and behavioral sciences

On how children are processing the pandemic, the vaccine, and a chaotic world

鈥淐hildren are definitely trying to figure out where they fit in this world. And we鈥檝e had multiple other events happen at the same time.鈥

鈥淐OVID-19 and all that comes with COVID as well as the social injustice movement, racism and health care disparities that have been brought into focus. We鈥檙e dealing with multiple issues all happening at the very same time and our children are truly trying to figure out where they fit.鈥

On cumulative stress on children

鈥淚 absolutely adore Kelly Clarkson. I think she鈥檚 fantastic. But she got it so very wrong. What doesn鈥檛 kill you doesn鈥檛 make you stronger. What we know is that the more stressors, the more traumas, the more difficulties we have put us at greater and greater risk for both short-term and long-term challenges.鈥

鈥淲hen we鈥檙e thinking about families, and particularly children, we鈥檙e seeing increases in anxiety and depression, and substance use. Those traumas are cumulative. What we will see 鈥 when children are stressed out, when parents are stressed out 鈥 it comes out in behavior problems.鈥

鈥淭he pot is boiling and it is boiling over. We know from long studies 鈥 the more stressors you have, the more at risk you are. More at risk for health problems, more at risk for homelessness, more at risk for unemployment, more at risk for health problems like cancer or diabetes that don鈥檛 seem like they should be connected to stressors from childhood, but that鈥檚 what we鈥檝e seen. So we need to be sure we appreciate the cumulative nature of stressors.鈥

鈥淲e have tremendous grief happening in this country. That is a unique stressor. Children are experiencing grief in ways that are unprecedented.鈥

鈥淟et鈥檚 just add a few disasters. Wildfires out in California. Massive ice and snowstorms in the Midwest and in the Northeast. It鈥檚 not just COVID. Then throw in the racial disparities for services. Those cumulative stressors are building and building and building.鈥

On whether we鈥檝e had a lost year

鈥淚t鈥檚 important to take a long-lens look. What happened in this past year doesn鈥檛 define where kids or teens are going to be in the long term. We still have that potential. But has this disrupted education? Absolutely. And it has brought up the disparities even more. For families that did not have access to reliable internet, or families with children in special education services that were incredibly derailed in this pandemic, we know those students are at a higher risk for not meeting those academic milestones.鈥

鈥淔or some children who were doing great in person but virtually they couldn鈥檛 make the transition and their grades slipped, it has effects on their self-esteem. It affects their view of their own future.鈥

鈥淚 do think this has served as a year of disrupted education. I don鈥檛 want to say this is a lost year of education.鈥

On importance of telehealth

鈥淲e truly have learned a lot about our pivot into telehealth. It has to be covered. It truly needs to be expanded. Along with that, I think we still need to work on campaigns to reduce stigma, particularly in minority populations, around accessing mental health.鈥

鈥淚 really do believe we need to do a better job training our mental health providers. We do not have enough to deal with the current as well as the long-term 鈥 need for mental health services. I think we really need to do a better job training our providers in trauma-informed care and trauma-informed services.鈥

On mental health services in schools

鈥淪ometimes in school systems, you might have one mental health provider for thousands of students. This is an equation that is not going to work.鈥  

鈥淎s we look ahead to how do we help schools get back to the learning environment 鈥 we also have to look at mental health providers. How are we going to do that in schools? How do we make sure there are services to reach the childrens鈥 needs?鈥

On what families can do to help their kids reduce stress

鈥淚 can鈥檛 stress enough the importance of routine to help reduce stress. In the pandemic, that has been a very hard thing to develop and to maintain. Just a routine. Thinking about what does our day look like? Routine allows us to feel more in control, to feel that things are more predictable. We know what鈥檚 coming.鈥

鈥淲ithin that routine, there needs to be time for each family member to have some quiet alone time. I know that鈥檚 easier said than done, but if it鈥檚 built in and families can even have a say in what they want to do in that time, that can be helpful.鈥

鈥淧etting an animal reduces our blood pressure. Find your pet and pet it!鈥

鈥淕etting up and moving. Activity and exercise helps. I think it鈥檚 also important to maintain open communication within family members. Check in with your kids.鈥

鈥淚f families have lost a loved one, and there are certainly over a half-million families with empty chairs 鈥 together, how can we think about honoring the memory of the loved one. That can help.鈥

鈥淲e know also that even when we鈥檙e stressed as much as we may be, if we can find a way to help someone else, we do better. So 鈥 think about how can we help someone else. Even if I鈥檓 struggling, I still may volunteer time at a food bank. Even if I鈥檓 struggling, I may still help my neighbor shovel their snowy driveway. Even if I鈥檓 struggling, I may still write an old-fashioned letter to a family member so they can feel connected. There are so many ways we know that can help.鈥

On hope

鈥淚 am very, very hopeful for our future. I really do think this is an opportunity we have had unlike any other time in my lifetime 鈥 that we have opportunities to teach our children some values, some ideals, some beliefs that may move us forward into a more hopeful place.鈥

鈥淚 truly do think that there are opportunities for growth; there鈥檚 opportunities for hope, that we will be kinder and maybe more connected.鈥

ANNA GASSMAN-PINES, associate professor, public policy, psychology and neuroscience

On parents struggling to work and care for kids at home

鈥淧arents, largely mothers, have had to leave the workforce in order to oversee remote schooling. We鈥檙e also seeing that school and care have been very likely to be disrupted throughout the fall in a variety of ways. It could be that your internet goes out and so your child can鈥檛 log into school. It could be that you鈥檙e using in-person care for a young child and that care has to close because there has been an exposure at that site. We鈥檙e finding that on any given day, about 25 percent of families are saying school and care did not go the way we thought it would today. That is a very high level of disruption in families鈥 daily routines.鈥

鈥淥n days when school and care has been disrupted, everyone is feeling a lot worse. Parents鈥 mood is worse. Children鈥檚 behavior is worse. The ongoing daily strains, especially around care and school, have been particularly hard to handle.鈥

On cumulative stress on parents

鈥淭he pandemic has heightened health risk. It has also had tremendous economic impact for families. It has changed so many things about family life. When families experience an accumulation of stressors related to the pandemic 鈥 like an adult in the household being laid off 鈥 when those accumulate in families, that is really when we see the absolute highest levels of mental health problems for both parents and the young children in those families.鈥

On how the pending federal stimulus package may help people

鈥淲hat families, lower-income families, need right now is more money. In some ways it鈥檚 actually quite straight-forward. By losing jobs or keeping jobs but having fewer hours, (families) experienced substantial income loss. That was affecting their ability to cover the basics. Many families worry about paying their rent. Many families being quite worried about having enough food.鈥

鈥淭hat first round of stimulus (in 2020) really did help. When we surveyed families in summer 鈥 through the CARES Act and the one-time stimulus checks that went out 鈥 that really buffered families from the most severe income losses.鈥

鈥淏ut of course those were temporary. By fall when those CARE Act provisions largely lapsed, families were once again suffering quite high levels of income loss and resulting strain.鈥

鈥淚f the government can pass another round of stimulus checks 鈥 that will make a tremendous amount of difference right away, especially for the most vulnerable families.鈥

On the vaccine, and other reasons for hope

鈥淢any parents (we survey) are working largely in essential jobs, particularly in food service, grocery stores, pharmacies. As we move forward, here in North Carolina essential workers are next on the (vaccine) list. That鈥檚 happening around the country.鈥

鈥淎nd I think also there is room for optimism around the policy response. We don鈥檛 yet know what this additional (stimulus) bill will look like ... but I do think just to highlight and underscore the fact that these stimulus measures, getting the stimulus checks to families, making unemployment insurance more generous during this period of real crisis will really support families鈥 needs.鈥

JENNIFER PLUMB-VILARDAGA, clinical psychologist

On pandemic stress for people with substance abuse disorders

鈥淚t鈥檚 affecting every area of our lives. For folks who already had difficulty managing a substance use disorder 鈥 in the very beginning of the pandemic, everything shut down, including care, because we didn鈥檛 know how to do that safely. Now we鈥檝e learned a lot and clinics are opening back up.鈥

鈥淭his chronic stress is really making substance abuse recovery harder. We鈥檙e also seeing individuals struggling with new substance use problems.鈥

鈥淚t鈥檚 very difficult to find positive social support. Even when we reach out to others, everyone is stressed. So it鈥檚 really making it a challenge for people to meet their recovery goals.鈥

鈥淎 lot of parents and adults are really struggling with how to turn to healthier behaviors when it鈥檚 very easy to numb out with substances and it鈥檚 very easy to isolate.鈥

鈥淩ecovery is possible. We do have to work harder to engage in other behaviors. But it is possible. Even right now, virtual options are available if you鈥檙e afraid to do it in person.鈥

On stress leading to substance abuse

鈥淧eople have estimated that not just the mental health impact of this pandemic but the substance use impact of this pandemic will persist for years afterwards because of the lack of resources. The need far outweighs what we have to offer in terms of professional support.鈥

鈥淪ubstance use actually puts people at increased risk of infection of COVID and increased risk of complications 鈥 even death 鈥 from COVID. We know there鈥檚 a huge problem with the increasing use of substances because it鈥檚 actually a huge risk factor for staying alive through this pandemic and seeing our way through to the other side.鈥

鈥淭his cumulative stress will build, not to mention the lingering effects of the grief. All of these missed milestones. Students who were not able to graduate from a level of school. Family members passing and not being able to have funerals or to honor their passing. All of these will persist because anniversaries will come. We will have missed out on many, many milestones. It is a crisis and it will persist. We need more resources to help people.鈥

On need for insurance to cover telehealth

鈥淭elehealth is a great option for families. I鈥檝e seen an increase in engagement and care from telehealth. So being able to support third-party payers, insurance companies, Medicare, Medicaid actually paying for telehealth 鈥 those are important features. Telehealth increases engagement. You don鈥檛 have to drive to an appointment. You don鈥檛 have to take a half day off from work.鈥

鈥淚t really increases engagement and care.鈥

鈥淎lso, being able to have financial support for substance abuse and treatment, that needs to be taken seriously. As people鈥檚 stressors increase, the level of substance abuse care that folks may need may actually be more intensive.鈥

On problems with opioids in the home

鈥淥pioids are a huge problem. They are accessible and are problems we see across every segment of the population. One of the easiest things you can do is reduce access. If someone had a surgery 鈥 put away the opioids. Most pharmacies will take back your old opioids. One way to reduce risk is to not have it in the home.鈥

On hope

鈥淚 have long been amazed by the resilience of the human spirit. While there鈥檚 a lot stacked against us with folks exposed to chronic stressors, multiple traumas 鈥 there is resilience. One of the things I鈥檝e seen emerging from the pandemic, we鈥檙e all looking at what actually matters to us. We鈥檙e letting go of some of the things maybe we weren鈥檛 attending to when we were busy.鈥

鈥淎s people are able to feed their families, maybe we can have people return to that natural inclination to think about what is actually most important.鈥

Meet the experts:

Anna Gassman-Pines
 is an associate professor of public policy, psychology and neuroscience, and faculty affiliate of the Center for Child and Family Policy. She studies low-wage work, family life and the effects of welfare and employment policy on child and maternal well-being, and the effects of job loss on children鈥檚 test scores. 

Robin Gurwitch
 is a professor in psychiatry and behavioral sciences at the 老牛影视 School of Medicine and director of parent-child interaction therapy at the Center for Child and Family Health. She studies the impact of trauma on children and families.

Jennifer Plumb-Vilardaga
 is a clinical psychologist with Duke Health and an assistant professor in psychiatry and behavioral sciences in the addiction division at the 老牛影视 School of Medicine.
 

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