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Your Guide to Virtual Meeting Etiquette

Common courtesies for video calls and other online gatherings

Photo courtesy of Zoom.
Photo courtesy of Zoom.

Jamie Gollon wears a suit jacket every morning to get into a professional frame of mind. 

Jamie Gollon dresses for virtual meetings as if she was in the office. Photo courtesy of Jamie Gollon.Gollon, a management engineer for Duke Health Performance Services, wore a jacket almost every day when she worked on-site before the pandemic. While she occasionally wears stretchy pants now while working at home, Gollon puts on a jacket whenever meeting by video teleconference. 

鈥淧utting on formal clothes shows my colleagues that I鈥檓 taking our time together seriously. I鈥檓 physically and mentally in work mode,鈥 Gollon said.

Dressing in professional attire is one of several ways to maintain etiquette during video calls to keep conversations productive, said Joy Birmingham, assistant director of (L&OD). 

鈥淗ow do you want to be perceived?鈥 Birmingham asked. 鈥淚t鈥檚 a matter of practicing some common courtesies that help you make a good impression and keep your meetings moving efficiently and effectively.鈥

For guidance on virtual manners, here鈥檚 what some colleagues do during their online meetings.

De-clutter your background 

Ivo Kidze uses a virtual background of a blank office space. Photo courtesy of Ivo Kidze.Birmingham recommends picking a space with an uncluttered view or virtual backdrop that keeps you as the focal point during virtual meetings. Everything in your background 鈥 artwork, photos or other d茅cor 鈥 should be items you are comfortable displaying in an office. 

and allow you to use a virtual background, or choose a . 

Kidze typically uses a stock image of a non-descript office space as his background for virtual meetings. 

鈥淗alf of the time, people don鈥檛 even realize my background is virtual,鈥 Kidze said. 鈥淭hey just accept it and move on with the meeting agenda.鈥

Mute yourself until it鈥檚 your time

Stay muted during virtual meetings until you need to speak. Ivo Kidze, IT analyst for Duke鈥檚 Office of Information Technology and president of the , suggests staying on mute during a video call. 

鈥淲e鈥檝e all had experiences where someone doesn鈥檛 realize they have their microphone on, and it鈥檚 the only thing you can pay attention to at that point in the meeting,鈥 Kidze said. 

His home office is in an open space  with no barriers eliminating other noises. He knows his house gets loud with three kids under the age of 10, so he mutes himself during meetings to filter out background noise and unmutes when it鈥檚 time to speak. 

鈥淏ackground noise can be distracting,鈥 Kidze said.

Stow the phone 

Aviv Sheetrit keeps her phone silenced and closes her email and web browser when participating in virtual meetings. Photo courtesy of Aviv Sheetrit. Aviv Sheetrit keeps her phone facedown and closes her web browser and email when she meets online with potential donors for Jewish Life at Duke.  

鈥淚 wouldn鈥檛 be looking at texts or emails if I was meeting with someone in person, so I鈥檓 not going to start now,鈥 said Sheetrit, associate director for external relations for Jewish Life at Duke. 鈥淣o matter who I鈥檓 meeting, I want them to know their time is valuable to me.鈥 

Birmingham of L&OD recommends silencing your phone and closing email during video teleconferences because you may miss important insights while multitasking. 

鈥淚t ends up hurting you because you can鈥檛 retain the meeting information as well,鈥 she said.

Use chat to keep meetings flowing

Lauren Cohen, with Duke Clinical Research Institute. Photo courtesy of Lauren Cohen.Lauren Cohen, clinical trials project leader for Duke Clinical Research Institute, participates in monthly Zoom meetings with about 100 people from across the country for 鈥,鈥 an online community of healthcare workers engaged in research studies about the impact of COVID-19 and vaccination. 

Rather than interrupt the conversation by posing questions aloud on the call, Cohen sends a message privately through the platform鈥檚 chat function or Jabber.  

Using chat for a quick one-on-one exchange keeps the meeting flowing. 

鈥淚t鈥檚 much easier to exchange a private word without knocking out the rhythm of whoever is speaking when you鈥檙e physically together than it is on Zoom when everyone is at the same volume,鈥 Cohen said.

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