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Body Language Tips for Engaging Video Meetings

How to improve your body language in the virtual workplace

Having good posture, expressing yourself using facial features and making eye contact can help communications with colleagues during virtual meetings. Photo courtesy of Zoom.
Having good posture, expressing yourself using facial features and making eye contact can help communications with colleagues during virtual meetings. Photo courtesy of Zoom.

Kathleen Moretz made a few adjustments to her body language after seeing herself on the computer screen during virtual meetings when her entire team started working remotely.

She now nods when a colleague speaks and smiles and looks at the webcam when someone addresses her. 

鈥淚 was always paying attention, but it didn鈥檛 necessarily look like I always was,鈥 said Moretz, clinical trials project leader for Duke Clinical Research Institute. 鈥淚t鈥檚 been a learning experience to teach myself to nod and smile through a meeting to show that I am engaged and listening.鈥

Don Shortslef, senior practitioner for Duke Learning & Organization Development. Photo courtesy of Don Shortslef.Moretz picked up pointers to practice positive body language during Duke Learning & Organization Development鈥檚 鈥淐ommunicating with Diplomacy & Tact鈥 course in July. , scheduled again for Oct. 1, offers tips to address conflict, give feedback and communicate in-person, over the phone and through virtual meetings.

Don Shortslef, senior practitioner for L&OD who led the course, said body language in virtual meetings is important to pay attention to because facial expressions, hand gestures and posture can help you communicate and collaborate effectively with colleagues, demonstrate attentiveness and reinforce trust.

鈥淚f you see someone slouched over or they aren鈥檛 blinking or reacting in any way, it鈥檚 easy to assume they are not listening,鈥 Shortslef said. 鈥淪imple body language adjustments like smiling or nodding more can go a long way in convincing your colleagues that you鈥檙e listening, engaged and comprehending what they鈥檙e saying.鈥

Here are four tips to improve your body language in the virtual workplace.

Express yourself 

Dave Solloway says to find nonverbal cues like raising your eyebrows and grinning to display interest during a virtual meeting. Photo courtesy of Dave Solloway.
Dave Solloway amplifies his facial reactions during video meetings. He raises his eyebrows, alternates between standing up straight and leaning forward at his standing desk, nodding and smiling. 

All of these behaviors are Solloway鈥檚 way of combatting his natural resting face, which he said people may interpret as disinterested. 

鈥淧eople can determine how you鈥檙e feeling by this six-inch image of you on their screen,鈥 said Solloway, assistant director for daytime MBA career services at the Fuqua School of Business. 鈥淭hat means every blink, every grin and every time you lean toward the camera has much more power because they can鈥檛 interpret your full body of energy.鈥

Solloway, who prepares students for networking engagements and interviews at the , recommends finding a few non-verbal cues that communicate you鈥檙e paying attention. He recommends nodding, giving a thumbs up or raising your eyebrows to demonstrate interest.

鈥淵ou want to be more animated,鈥 Solloway said. 鈥淭hat鈥檚 going to help your audience understand your message and help presenters know you are engaged.鈥

Straighten your posture

When seated, sit up straight so your ears, shoulders and hips are aligned.
Don Shortslef鈥檚 secret to maintaining good posture and keeping his back straight during virtual meetings is imagining all eyes are on him.

鈥淚t鈥檚 not a good look if you鈥檙e hunched over the computer, you鈥檙e looking down or you鈥檙e sprawled out on the couch,鈥 Shortslef said. 鈥淵ou could be saying the right things, but your body is conveying 1,000 negative cues. That negativity is what people are going to remember.鈥

To help your posture, keep your feet flat on the ground and thighs level to the floor so you have a 90-degree angle at the knees. Your head, neck, back and legs should be aligned when standing. When seated, sit up straight so your ears, shoulders and hips are aligned.

Good posture makes you appear more energetic, self-confident and reduces stress on your body. Shortslef said proper posture helps him focus and get into a work mindset.  

鈥淪itting up straight makes me feel more engaged, more confident and more professional,鈥 Shortslef said. 鈥淚 find that even my voice conveys more power and interest.鈥

Leave room for your hands

Caroline Gorham keeps the computer about an arm鈥檚 length away so colleagues see her shoulders and hands while she talks during virtual meetings. Photo courtesy of Caroline Gorham.
As someone who gestures with her hands while she talks, Caroline Gorham makes a habit of positioning her chair a few inches away from her desk when a video meeting starts. 

Gorham keeps the computer about an arm鈥檚 length away so colleagues see her shoulders and hands while she talks during staff meetings and virtual get-togethers with the 鈥溾&苍产蝉辫;肠濒耻产.&苍产蝉辫;

鈥淲hen you鈥檙e cutting out my hands then you鈥檙e only getting half of what I鈥檓 saying,鈥 said Gorham, executive assistant to the director of the . 鈥淭alking with my hands is my way of showing excitement and enthusiasm. I鈥檓 metaphorically pulling you into the conversation.鈥

Solloway, of the Fuqua School of Business, said sitting an arm鈥檚 length away from the screen is the perfect distance for a virtual meeting. You want to be close enough so your colleagues can see your face clearly and far enough away so it doesn鈥檛 appear as if you鈥檙e a floating head. Aim to have your head, shoulders and top of your torso in view.

鈥淭he best speakers I鈥檝e watched move their hands into the frame,鈥 Solloway said. 鈥淚t鈥檚 less inviting to only see someone鈥檚 head because we鈥檙e used to seeing their entire body when talking to them. Seeing someone move their shoulders and gesticulate creates a much more natural and engaging feeling for your virtual conversations.鈥

Make eye contact

Kathleen Moretz, left, switches between looking directly at her webcam and the computer screen when she talks during meetings. Photo by Jonathan Black.
To replicate looking into someone鈥檚 eyes, look directly into your webcam. 

Moretz of the Duke Clinical Research Institute alternates between looking directly at her webcam and the computer screen when she talks during meetings.

If you鈥檙e typing notes online, have the notes on the same computer screen as your virtual meeting. Putting notes on a separate screen makes it appear that your attention is elsewhere. Continue to intermittently glance at the screen if you鈥檙e taking notes by hand. Also, mute your microphone, so sounds of typing don鈥檛 distract others.

Speak up using body language

Use Microsoft Teams hand raise button to indicate you need to speak. Photo courtesy of Microsoft Teams.
Solloway has a few tricks to silently indicate when he has something to say during a virtual meeting. 

He raises his chin and a hand or finger. Meeting attendees can also use a button that looks like a raised hand in , and to show you want to speak. 

鈥淲e could all do a better job at paying attention to how long we鈥檙e speaking and acknowledging others if they appear to have something to say,鈥 Solloway said. 鈥淲hen someone uses their face to express an inquisitive look and raises their hand that鈥檚 usually a sign they have something to say. Likewise, we all know raising your hand means you want to speak.鈥

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