Dialogue and Understanding Key Message from Duke Clergy

The two will participate in a forum on ways to discuss the war in the Middle East

Rabbi Elana Friedman from Jewish Life and Joshua Salaam, Muslim chaplain and director of the Center for Muslim Life at Duke
Rabbi Elana Friedman from Duke Jewish Life and Joshua Salaam, director of the Center for Muslim Life at Duke will take part in the 2024 Provost鈥檚 Forum: 鈥淯niversities and the Israel-Palestine Conflict: How to Discuss, How to Engage?鈥

Two Duke clergy members have a simple message for Monday鈥檚 provost forum on how to discuss and engage on issues related to the war between Israel and Hamas.

鈥淢y general message is understanding,鈥 says , Muslim chaplain and director of the Center for Muslim Life at Duke. 鈥淚t gets more complicated than that, of course, but that鈥檚 where I鈥檓 coming from.鈥

Rabbi from Jewish Life at Duke agrees.

鈥淲hat does it mean to really listen to one another and not just have your voice be heard? And that's why I echo brother Joshua's sentiment here. It's about understanding, and it's about being open to listening to each other,鈥 she said.

Both will take part in the 2024 Provost鈥檚 Forum: Monday in the Karsh Alumni & Visitors Center, joining a panel of Duke scholars and leaders on dialogue and discourse amidst differences . (The event is full but members of the Duke community can watch a live simulcast in Page Auditorium beginning at 8:55 a.m.)

鈥淛ust reflecting together as two chaplains, like, what is our role? How can we help students understand?鈥

Joshua Salaam

The forum will 鈥渆xplore ways a university can guide an environment where mutual learning can flourish in the tense environment the conflict has generated on college campuses nationwide,鈥 according to an event description.

Unlike a number of other universities, student-led gatherings related to the war in Gaza remained largely peaceful last year at Duke. Salaam said he is not sure exactly why that was the case.

鈥淚t was a blessing from God that we didn't have more students getting suspended and, you know, doxed and 鈥 ruining their jobs and things like that,鈥 he said. 鈥淎t the same time, a student can say, 鈥榃e consider that like a sign that we didn't do enough,鈥 and they don't see that as a blessing. They see that as a missed opportunity.鈥

Joshua Salaam and Elana Friedman share thoughts about how to have safe dialogues in a very intense moment.

Added Friedman: 鈥淚 think Duke administration and folks who were dealing with what could happen were really thoughtful and intentional about how to react to whatever might happen.  There was a lot of conversation, a lot of policy, a lot of relationship-building behind the scenes that I think a lot of our students really appreciated.鈥

Both leaders acknowledged the past year made their roles supporting students and the Duke community even more challenging than usual. But they believe their relationship  serves as a model for promoting understanding and safe dialogue about difficult topics.

鈥淛ust reflecting together as two chaplains, like, what is our role? How can we help students understand?鈥 Salaam said. 鈥淗ow can we make sure the students don't hate each other? And we've been having some conversations about that. She's done some work within her community to have engagement. I've done work in my community, and we're figuring out how to do something between the communities, but it takes a lot of work, takes a lot of relationship building, and a lot of time, and I'm committed to that.

鈥淪o my role hasn't changed, but I feel like I have done a lot of growth in the last year.鈥

Friedman said the past year has been 鈥渧ery intense for our community.鈥

鈥淗ow do we serve them best under the pressure of an enormous amount of grief, anger, sadness, frustration and so on?鈥 she asked.

鈥淭wo things have always been true for me and my work. One is that Israel has been an essential part of the work that we do because of its historic and personal connection to the Jewish people,鈥 she said. 鈥淎nd the second thing is that the Jewish community is diverse, and not all Jewish people feel the exact same way about every single issue. And that has never changed in the Duke Jewish community,鈥 she said, adding: 鈥淏ut it has never been more highlighted than in the past year.鈥

Registration for the聽2024 Provost鈥檚 Forum聽is now closed.聽A live simulcast of the program will be shown in Page Auditorium for members of the Duke community, who are invited to attend any time between 8:30 a.m. and 2:30 p.m. on Sept. 16. No registration is required. Please see the聽 for session details.

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