Duke Wellness Champs: Larissa Fulkerson Reserves Time for Balance

From reading books to cross-stitching, Larissa Fulkerson has figured out how to find calm

Larissa Fulkerson and her cross-stitching
While her daily routines can get hectic, Larissa Fulkerson makes sure to find time for activities which bring her balance, such as cross-stitching. Photo courtesy of Larissa Fulkerson.

This story is part of the聽Duke Wellness Champs Series.

As an operating room nurse at Duke Raleigh Hospital, Larissa Fulkerson doesn鈥檛 shy away from stressful and intense situations. And as a mother of two teenage boys, her life away from work can is filled with action, too.

But there are times when it gets to be a little much.

鈥淲orking in surgery, there鈥檚 so much noise,鈥 said Fulkerson, 39. 鈥淎nd when I come home, there are people talking and kids playing computer games. It can sometimes just feel overwhelming, like there is too much going on.鈥

In the past year, Fulkerson has found a degree of balance by intentionally setting aside time to create and enjoy quiet. There鈥檚 no set time, just an awareness that, whenever possible, she should take time away from screens and noise and do something for herself.

鈥淚 try to find moments a few days each week, when the opportunity arises, to just have quiet time, no devices, minimal noise,鈥 Fulkerson said. 鈥淲hen I鈥檓 just sitting there looking at my phone, reading social media, I鈥檒l remind myself to put the phone down and go do something quiet.鈥

Fulkerson鈥檚 commitment to finding balance is what makes her a Duke Wellness Champ. With our series, Duke Wellness Champs, Working老牛影视 will spotlight staff and faculty who take charge of their overall physical, mental and/or social well-being. Through each person鈥檚 story, we hope to inspire and help colleagues in pursuit of their wellness goals.

Building quiet time into her routine is something Fulkerson began doing last year, as she realized the stress of work, family and the pandemic were weighing on her well-being. Fulkerson said she made changes such as working out with a CrossFit group near her Raleigh home and trying to cut down on the amount of processed food in her family鈥檚 diet.

鈥淵ou always hear people say that you can鈥檛 take care of others until you take care of yourself,鈥 Fulkerson said. 鈥淭hat鈥檚 something that鈥檚 always been in the back of my mind. But sometimes, you have to take control and do something about it.鈥

Fulkerson works 12-hour shifts, often on weekends, meaning there are mornings and afternoons during the week when she can be home alone. These are the opportunities she tries to make the most of by reading 鈥渁ctual books鈥 on a wide range of subjects 鈥 she recently read a book on the potential of technology and another on religion 鈥 and making progress on cross-stitching projects.

Cross-stitching is a hobby she took up in 2022, and she鈥檚 found challenges in the intricate patterns and satisfaction once her designs are complete.

鈥淚 feel less anxious,鈥 Fulkerson said. 鈥淚 feel more centered. It helps me put things into perspective. I don鈥檛 feel as though I鈥檓 rushing. While life still has its stressors, taking this time just helps me feel more relaxed.鈥

Is there an inspiring colleague in your corner of Duke who embraces physical, mental and/or social well-being? Let us know. Write working@duke.edu.